Jamie Lauren Sutton

Dear Ms. Demeanor,

I live in a high rise and am paying to have my windows cleaned. The on-site manager will not answer my simple question of how much to tip the washer ( who charges $13 per window x 12 windows). She says she hasn't any idea about the subject, although she recommended the washer.

Does one tip a window washer? If so, is it like restaurants and cabs--20-ish percent, or something else? I've always lived in walkups and cleaned my own windows.

Regards,

Dear Ms. Demeanor,

I'm moving out of my current apartment and my roommates need to fill my spot. They are being SUPER picky about my replacement, turning down candidates for the silliest reasons. I want to be understanding, but it's getting close to move-out date and I want them to get moving. Any suggestions?

Sincerely,
Moving Out

Dear Moving Out,

Tricky business! Take heart that you are so hard to replace, and cast a wide net looking for replacement.

Dear Ms. Demeanor,

My neighbors have loud (porn-style) sex almost every night between 1 and 2 in the morning. I'm too embarrassed to say anything, but it's really annoying and I can't sleep. Can you recommend a well-worded letter?

Sincerely,

The Accidental Voyeur

Dear  Accidental Voyeur,

Dear Ms. Demeanor,

I live in a (doorman) building where everyone keeps their doors unlocked. I don't feel comfortable doing it, but don't want to be a social pariah. What do I do?

Sincerely,

Doris Doorlocker

Dear Doris Doorlocker,